You’re not crazy.

Dating really did change.

Modern dating leaves smart, successful women feeling confused, exhausted, and questioning themselves. the afterswipe™ is for women navigating dating who are done guessing and ready for clarity.

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ABOUT US

You didn’t expect dating to feel like this.

You’re successful. Self-aware. Emotionally intelligent. And yet you’re overanalyzing texts, explaining behavior that doesn’t sit right, feeling chemistry without consistency, and wondering why dating feels harder than it should.

It’s not just you! It’s modern dating — and no one taught us how to navigate it. That’s where we come in.

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OUR PHILOSOPHY

What the afterswipe™ really means.

the afterswipe™ is the moment after the match, the date, or the relationship — when the fantasy fades and clarity begins. It’s where women stop guessing and start seeing patterns for what they are.

We explore modern dating with honesty, psychology, humor, and heart — because if you’re not swiping with you in mind…delete the app, girl.

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THE CONFERENCE

From pattern to power.

Real talk. Real experts. Real connection. You’ll leave lighter, louder, and a hell of a lot clearer.

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SWIPEDNA

Meet SwipeDNA™

Ever wonder why you're drawn to certain people or dynamics?

SwipeDNA™ is a dating personality quiz designed to reveal how you show up in modern dating. It helps women identify patterns, blind spots, and dating behaviors that keep repeating — so clarity replaces confusion.

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“For the first time, I don’t feel like I’m doing this alone. Being part of the afterswipe™ feels like sitting in a room full of women who actually get it.”

— Emily K., 39

THE COMMUNITY

You don’t have to do this alone.

Dating can feel isolating, especially after divorce, long relationships, or repeated disappointment. the afterswipe™ is a women’s dating community built on honesty, shared experience, and support — not competition.

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THE SWIPESHOP™

Own your era out loud!

the afterswipe™ merch is designed for women who’ve seen behind the curtain of modern dating. Every piece reflects clarity, self-trust, and the moment you stopped questioning yourself.

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