The After Swipe™ Live is a girls’ weekend conference and retreat for women 40+ navigating modern dating

Event Agenda

Your transformative weekend in Chicago

This isn’t a vague self-help weekend. The After Swipe™ Live is a girls’ weekend-style conference and retreat for women 40+ navigating modern dating, divorce, and reinvention — blending conversation, laughter, learning, and connection. Every session is intentionally designed to move you from confusion to clarity. Hosted as an intimate, guided experience with clear structure and intentional dress codes, The After Swipe™ LIVE isn’t about fashion—it’s about fun, embodiment, identity and transition. Each day asks you to show up as a different version of yourself on purpose, because transformation happens when we step outside our comfort zone.

Day 1 – Before the Swipe
An evening to exhale, laugh and feel sexy again. Meet the founders, sip cocktails, bond with women who get it and open the Swipe Circle. Dress code: flirty, fun, elevated – a black cocktail dress is required. You’ll leave thinking, “I feel hot. I feel seen. I’m excited to be here”.

Day 2 – Strip Down to Rise Up
Morning: soft, real and unfiltered. In comfy clothes and minimal makeup, we ground ourselves, connect and dive into the new rules of dating, the Four Pillars of Modern Dating and how trauma loops shape attraction. Evening: formal, feminine and elevated – sparkle and heels encouraged. At the gala you’ll walk a red carpet, pose for glam portraits and hear a keynote that closes the chapter on confusion. You’ll leave saying, “I’m not broken. I finally understand”.

Day 3 – Rebirth Day
All white or all pink, no exceptions. Nine sessions unpack real data on modern dating and guide you through the Catch & Release Method™, Dating for Fun (Not Fantasy), Swipe DNA™ completion and Swipe Thesis™ creation. We’ll end with a rebirth ceremony and champagne toast. You’ll leave with a 90‑day action plan, your personalised Swipe DNA™ profile and Swipe Thesis™, and a room full of sisters who get it.

Is this for you?
This experience is perfect if you’re tired of decoding mixed signals, want tools rather than platitudes, still believe in connection and intimacy, and value community and intelligent conversation. It’s not for anyone seeking surface‑level motivation or unwilling to participate in a dress‑coded, intentional experience. Discover the new rules of dating and trauma loops, alternative dating lifestyles, and more.

Why attend?
Because modern dating removed natural decision points, and The After Swipe™ LIVE gives them back. You’ll leave with a clear understanding of modern dating dynamics, language to stop over‑explaining and start choosing confidently, and a supportive sisterhood to keep you accountable.

Spots are limited (General, VIP and Inner Circle tiers). Choose your transformation and join us for a weekend where clarity, community and self‑trust replace confusion and cynicism.